Matthew 18:15-20 (NRSV)
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Verse 15"If another member of the church sins against you, go and point out the fault when the two of you are alone. If the member listens to you, you have regained that one. Verse 16But if you are not listened to, take one or two others along with you, so that every word may be confirmed by the evidence of two or three witnesses. Verse 17If the member refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church; and if the offender refuses to listen even to the church, let such a one be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector. Verse 18Truly I tell you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven. Verse 19Again, truly I tell you, if two of you agree on earth about anything you ask, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven. Verse 20For where two or three are gathered in my name, I am there among them."
Devotion
What happens when someone wrongs you? Maybe you pretend it didn’t happen. Maybe you post about it on social media. Maybe you rant to family or friends.
But Jesus says, first go to the one who wronged you and point out the fault. Privately. Directly. To their face, not behind their back.
I don’t know about you, but that sounds like hard, uncomfortable work. It would be easier to talk about the person than to them. But Jesus treats the relationship as worth more than our comfort. “If you are listened to, you have regained that one.” Not defeated them. Not proven a point. Regained them. The relationship is something precious that was in danger of being lost.
Only if that word goes unheard does the circle widen, first to witnesses, then the whole community. Confrontation, Jesus’ way, stays as small as it can, because the goal was never to win, but to restore a broken relationship.
Prayer
Lord, give us the courage to go to one another in times of conflict, and to seek restoration. Amen.
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